This needs to be said.

As someone who’s been roleplaying,drawing asks and creating content on this site for a while now, I’ve seen some things I’ll never unsee, all sorts of drama in all sorts of fandoms. Heck I’ve made many mistakes in the past that I wish I could take back. However I’ve noticed over the years a disturbing trend and I’ve never knew how bad it could get until it happened to me. 

This has been said many times before but in this digital age content creators are closer more than ever to fans of their work. Heck ask blogs like mine have direct influence from the fans. Now before I go off with what I have been wanting to say these months I want to let you know the people who’ve helped this blog grow and have been genuinely fun to interact with have nothing to do with the type of people i’m about to describe. The respectable and wonderful people who enjoy the blog would get a big ol’ bear hug from me and I’m sorry I haven’t been updating as of late. 

Now there are the type of people who are obsessed with certain things. Nothing is wrong with loving something dearly and wanting to enjoy it as much as possible. That’s why this blog exists lol. 

However there’s a type of obsession that isn’t okay. It’s when you constantly message someone on a day to day basis, harass someone, shove your fetish on them, use their work in something that triggers them, and what I personally find most insulting: using that person to live your fantasy. 

I’ve experienced some of the above but I’ve seen it happen to my friends and people I follow. Heck an incident that happened with my friend triggered this post in the first place. Also this isn’t even happening to ~celebrities~; even if they deserve decent respect too, It’s happening to regular ol’ people who just post stuff in their free time. 

You think that this doesn’t need to be said but apparently it doesn’t get through some people’s thick heads. 

Pardon for the oncoming french but *ahem*

THEY ARE FUCKING HUMAN BEINGS NOT YOUR PERSONAL PLAY THING.

If you’re making them uncomfortable. Stop. 
If you’re harassing them. Stop. 
If you’re cussing them out because they won’t do what you tell them to. Stop.
If you’re sending your fetish to them begging them to partake. Stop.
If you’re stalking them. Stop.

Just. STOP.

You’re not entitled to anyone or their content. 
This is defiantly seen on roleplay and ask blogs. Not only will you hurt them by doing these things some of them even give up their pride and joy because you just wouldn’t stop heckling them for your own selfish pleasure. 

It’s gross and it shouldn’t be tolerated because damn it, we are people too. 

Hey could anyone that I have a thread with at the moment like this post? I suddenly got caught up with work and I could only reply to a couple of threads. I’m very interested in continuing them and I’m really sorry for not responding for a while!! qoq

((So uh- asks may be on hold for a bit because I was in a car accident last night and I may have to work hard to fix my car. It’s literally my only way to work, go to school and basically do anything. Including probably having to do emergency commissions. Would anyone be actually interested in them if I put up prices?))